A guide for Catholic brides who want beautiful flat-lays without the stress
When you’re in the whirlwind of wedding planning, the big things—like venue, dress, and timeline—can take center stage. But can I let you in on a little secret? Some of the most tender, beautiful storytelling moments come from the smallest details. The delicate embroidery on your grandmother’s handkerchief, the rosary tucked into your bouquet, the invitation you carefully chose six months ago… these pieces matter.
I always tell my couples that detail shots are like the prologue to your wedding day story. They give a sense of tone and intimacy before we even get to the vows. And while I love photographing these keepsakes, I also want to make sure it’s not a source of stress for you on the day-of. So let’s talk through how to make your detail shots both meaningful and manageable. ✨
Here are my tried-and-true tips to help your detail photos go smoothly and feel intentional:
Tips for Stress-Free, Meaningful Detail Photos
Dedicate the time it needs to look effortless!
Flat lays take time to look effortless. We’re playing with light, balance, textures… and I want to give these items the care they deserve. It’s not just a snap-and-go. By setting aside a full 45 minutes at the beginning of your timeline, you’re giving your wedding story the thoughtful start it deserves.
To make my couples' wedding days as stress-free as possible, I always offer the option to take detail shots the night prior to the wedding at the rehearsal dinner. You don’t want to be hunting down earrings or invitation envelopes while your makeup artist is curling your last strand, so by getting them taken care of the night before, you can spend the morning of your wedding just enjoying your special time and getting ready!
Keep everything together in a shoebox (or something like it!)
A simple box off to the side makes a huge difference. This could be anything—a Target storage bin, a tote, or a cute personalized box. When I arrive, I’ll ask for “the details,” and having them all in one place means you don’t have to lift a finger (or panic text your bridesmaid to find your perfume).
Less is More
It’s easy to want to include everything—and I love that you’re excited! But I always say: quality over quantity. Too many items can make it hard for me to tell what’s essential and what’s just “extra.” If there are pieces you really want photographed, maybe even write a quick note and tape it to the inside of your detail box. I’ll start there. Include what’s personal, not just what’s trendy
I’ll send over a list of suggestions (keep reading!), but you don’t have to include every item on Pinterest. What makes your love story different? What heirlooms or meaningful touches feel true to you and your love story? That’s what I want to capture.
Need a few ideas to get started?
Here’s a list of detail items to consider. Use it as inspiration, not a checklist—you don’t need it all, I promise.
Day-of Details
- Engagement rings & Wedding Bands
- Full Invitation suite (invite, RSVP, details card, and envelopes-- bring two full sets in case I want to layer or use the backs
- Mass Program
- Save the date
Bride’s Accessories
- Hanger for Wedding Dress
- Veil or hairpiece
- Wedding shoes
- Jewelry (earrings, necklace, bracelet, hair pins)
- Letter to groom, or his gift
- Perfume bottle
- Handkerchief (especially heirloom ones!)
- Something old, borrowed, or blue
Groom’s Accessories
- Tie or bowtie
- Cufflinks
- Cologne
- Shoes
- Watch or pocket watch
- Letter to bride, or her gift
- Socks with a personal touch (I recommend my favorite family-owned Catholic small business, Sock Religious!)
Religious Items
- Rosary (even better if it’s gifted or heirloom)
- Holy cards or prayer cards of patron saints
- Crucifix
- Family Bible or Missal
- Small statue or icons of the Holy Family
- Saint Medals
You don’t need to overthink your details. A few heartfelt touches go a long way in telling your story beautifully. And remember—these images aren’t just for Instagram. They’re for the album you’ll show your children someday, the prints you’ll hold on your 25th anniversary, and the reminders of the why behind your “I do.”
I’ll bring the styling, ribbons, and eye for light—you just bring your love story. ✨📸
